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Tragic death of my BFF's son

Just heartbteaking story . Im so so sorry. Prayers and warm thoughts. Im so sorry. I cant imagine what the mom is going thru :(
 
I was surprised when she let her son go away to college but his dad went to Purdue so I'm sure he wanted his son to experience college life.

My DDs are talking about colleges now. I truly DO NOT want them to go away I'd rather they commute. DH is on the same page. I went to Elmhurst College, drove there everyday then came home at night. I couldn't imagine going away my mom would have died.

But in life you never know your fate. I'm not looking forward to the funeral. I rarely cry but this has just set me off so much. Why do people not think about others when they are getting in their cars drunk??

I agree with not wanting my girls to go away to school. I was actually talking to dh cousin today that has a scholarship to Olivet and will probably live on campus. I could never understand since dh and my BIL could drive twice as far to work. I thought about it though that maybe it would be safer for them to stay on campus instead of driving everyday. In this case it wasn't, but after loosing someone not even close to this tradgedy is still a loss. I don't understand why people are taken this way nor do I know what anyones purpose is in life, but he served his. It is still a terribly sad situation and wouldn't want to see any parent loose a child or in my case to loose a parent at such a young age.
 
I feel treible for everyone involded. The thought ofit makes me so said. My DD just graduated this past May. I can't even put into words how sad I feel for this family,
 
Sorry. I know how it feels. Lost BIL & his 2 friends to a drunk driver. They were all 19 and in college. As bad as that was I think it would be 1000 times worse if it were my own child. Prayers to that family.
 
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