Teach me to flirt

[icoupon2]

It wouldn't be a good idea if Prince Charming himself popped up out of a story book and wanted a quick roll in the non-committal hay. She doesn't have the emotional fortitude that is required to deal with the rejection that often comes with a FWB situation.

Is there ANYONE who thinks FWB was a good idea for Nohio? Cook or no cook? I'm thinking "no" but... :9:

 

[georgie]

Ok, so I guess you pop out from under that rock every now & again. :lol:

That's not a rock honey... But, it's solid like one and rhymes with rock. :wink2:

 

[fords8]

It wouldn't be a good idea if Prince Charming himself popped up out of a story book and wanted a quick roll in the non-committal hay. She doesn't have the emotional fortitude that is required to deal with the rejection that often comes with a FWB situation.

Sorry he's already happily married... to me! :lol:



LOVE the new pic - BTW!

 

[Tazznum1]

Carded him???

she's already tracked him down on Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, Linked in, the doctors office, SS office and the movie theater..... Liz is no amateur stalker!

Huh.... with your assumin ****!

The 52 y.o.?

 

[icoupon2]

Yay!! But did you hold out on him until you were married? Or did you give it up after he gave you those nice glass slippers? :roll:

Sorry he's already happily married... to me! :lol:



LOVE the new pic - BTW!

 

[fords8]

You know, I really thought that some of you were my friends, and I could talk to you about different thoughts that pop into my head. I guess I was wrong. I will try to shut up now (but I can't make any guarantees).

You don't think people can only take only so much of the same old, same old? You yourself called it people "wasting their time" offering advice... and then to consistently throw out new, even worse, ideas..... and expect people to "waste their time" and effort AGAIN to try and talk you out of it..... friendship is give and take, Liz..... all you do it take :surrender:

That's kind of the problem. Everyone is not saying the same thing. I am getting all kinds of different advice.

Everyone gives advice based on their own past experiences, which are, of course, all different. What works for someone else may not work in your circumstances. Part of growing up is learning to take all the advice everyone gives you and filter it, then discern what is best for you at this time. Mistakes happen sometimes, but moving past them is also part of growing up - you learn to pick yourself and move on. It's not realistic to expect everyone to dictate all your steps for you. That's just not how life works.

People might be telling you some different things, but I think everyone has been pretty consistent on at least one thing - you should try to move your life forward somehow, not just stay in the rut you've been in. You got a job - great! It may not be your dream job or one that you want to do forever, but it's a good start. Everyone has to start somewhere. If you don't want to stay there, try to figure out what direction you do want to go, make a plan to get there, and then FOLLOW THROUGH WITH IT.

People have also consistently tred to tell you to develop healthy relationships. Make friends. I know it's hard; I have some social anxiety issues myself, so I at least somewhat understand how that's stressful for you, but ultimately having friends will help you immensely. But, the guys you've mentioned don't really seem like good candidates for healthy relationships, and an unhealthy relationship would probably just create more problems for you.

EXACTLY! The advice given has generally been very consistent and sensible.

 

[fords8]

The 52 y.o.?

Indeed...

 

[fords8]

Yay!! But did you hold out on him until you were married? Or did you give it up after he gave you those nice glass slippers? :roll:

Please what kinda HOOR do you think I am ... I gave it up after he PROMISED me happy ever after! :giggles:

 

[NoHio]

50!

Now I can lock it.

:giggles:

Is it mean that I actually LOL when I saw icoupon2's thanks?

I wonder if the 52 yo (Nohio, how do you know his age) is on facebook...

He said he was 10 in 1968, so not that hard to figure out. He also said that he doesn't even have internet access anymore, so he's not on facebook. I don't know his last name anyway.

 

[fords8]

No one bumped this in 2 days?!?!


:faint:



I kid!!!!!

BARB!!! :tap:

 

[CharlieQ]

No one bumped this in 2 days?!?!


:faint:



I kid!!!!!

WTG Barb. :hb:

 

[fords8]

You were supposed to :faint:

or

:hb:

pick one. ROFL

Oh, I was gonna :slap: you for bumping this mess. How 'bout :gah:?

No? Fine, I'll go with :hb: then.

 

[fords8]

*public service announcement*

By bumping this, it will probably hurt someone's feelings and will most likely disappoint others. Do you not understand you should be shamed for commenting???

*public service announcement* over

 

[fords8]

*public service announcement*

By bumping this, it will probably hurt someone's feelings and will most likely disappoint others. Do you not understand you should be shamed for commenting???

*public service announcement* over

:snort: