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I am sitting here getting ready to work and crying. My sister and I have had problems getting along for numerous years now and finally I think our relationship has come to an end.

We had a big fight on Sunday and I told her it is over. I can't take it anymore.

It breaks my heart but dont know what else to do. I made an appt with a therapist on Monday just to have someone to talk to about this. At least if I can get my feelings out it will help me come to grips with this.


Thank you for listening.
 
I am so sorry you and your sis are having trouble.

What Ernie said--"we are here to listen", is so true. CW is a wonderful family, just think of all the sisters you have here to listen and provide advice.
 
I'm sorry that your going through this pain. I don't have any brother's or sisters but I'm feeling the same pain from my DH and his sister fighting for months now.
 
I'm sorry, I know how hard it can be...my DH has problems with his brother and sister too...they are quite dysfunctional and he has put up with their issues for years now...HUGS!
 
I'm so sorry. I talk to my sisters, but they aren't my best friends. It would hurt to have to cut them off totally.

I have a very fragile relationship with one sister. She has so much - 2 houses, a boat, no money worries and yet she complains all the time. I'm so glad she lives 5 hours away, so I can hang up the phone and not have to hear it. That's the short version.
 
Sorry to hear, my baby daddy also has trouble with his family, he doesn't speak to his mother or sister at all. When he does try, all they do is ask for money, so he quits talking to them, they don't even call him to find out if he is alive.
 
Nani22305 said:
Sorry to hear, my baby daddy also has trouble with his family, he doesn't speak to his mother or sister at all. When he does try, all they do is ask for money, so he quits talking to them, they don't even call him to find out if he is alive.
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This! Otherwise you never hear from her. She can bite me and go away because she makes DH crazy and she is toxic to us.

I don't want to say this but if she is toxic it's better to walk away from her for a while--your mental health is more important.
 
Hoping the therapist can help you.........If not, talk to us, we are hear to listen to you and will try to help give some good advice. I am very thankful that I do not have family/sibling/in-law issues.
 
Families of Origin (FOO!) can be so tough and touchy - luckily we grow up and start our own families. Good for you for going to counseling, that should help get it off your chest.

My mom called me a "coward" for not driving downtown Sunday morning in the snow to go to church with her. One hour each way! With 3 kids! In the snow!
 
How's this one - MIL has always been a little *cough-hack-wheeze* "selfish" but recently DH (her son???) has had some serious medical issues. She doesn't want to hear about it. I interupted her weekly repeat of the same stories since I've know her (which I never do lol) to tell her the updates re: DH because I was worried and she cut me off, saying she had another call. I was like "oh okay" thinking it was weird but I had to make some calls anyway. When I picked up the phone like a second later the line hadn't gone dead and she was still there, trying to call someone else to chat. I was like hmmm, thought you had another call? :pigfly: Whateva be-yatch, cannot get myself to pick up her repeated calls this week - I'm taking a MIL vacation :giggles:

Sorry you're having trouble with your sis, try not to cut her out completely though - it might hurt you more than accepting what limited relationship you can accomplish with her :flowers: Good Luck
 
TripleC said:
Thank you for the support. I just hope it will quit hurting soon.
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Are you fight for certain issues. I fight with my sisters all the time. One I wont even talk to one because she always talks about the money I borrowed from my mom. I'm paying her back and I do all the work around the house for her. I also in the process of rehabbing her whole house. I'm paying for all the materials and my time. Big project. Hang in there if you can. Maybe just text each other. sometimes it better than talking to them in person. Good luck
 
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