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I dont know if I would change anything to be honest....I am where I am with the choices I have made and since I have gorgeous twin boys it makes me think that if I did do something different then I wouldnt have them....

You live and learn...how about you?
 
Not sure if I'd change any decision that I made, because any experience can be good or be viewed in a good light. I often wonder why I didn't get this or that woman. I'll be 42 soon, and I'm still single ... perhaps 42 will be the answer to all my questions? Who knows?

I also have the thought often: "If I hadn't made exactly all those decisions that I have made, I wouldn't be where I am now."

(Not that I don't treasure other possible permutations of my existence, but this is the road that I am travelling.)
 
Monster said:
Not sure if I'd change any decision that I made, because any experience can be good or be viewed in a good light. I often wonder why I didn't get this or that woman. I'll be 42 soon, and I'm still single ... perhaps 42 will be the answer to all my questions? Who knows?

I also have the thought often: "If I hadn't made exactly all those decisions that I have made, I wouldn't be where I am now."

(Not that I don't treasure other possible permutations of my existence, but this is the road that I am travelling.)
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do you think fear prevented you from going to get things? I know the older we get the less we fear hmmmm or is it the opposite?
 
Vicky said:
do you think fear prevented you from going to get things? I know the older we get the less we fear hmmmm or is it the opposite?
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Good question ... I rarely consciously fear things anymore, and I'm not sure if fear changed with age ... but now that I think about it, I noticed that I've become better at avoiding things, perhaps ... but also being more careless about things ... when you take life as it is, as it comes, then there's not much room for fear, but this can also mean traveling the road of least trouble (fewest obstacles; smallest opposition; Den Weg des geringsten Widerstands -- not sure how to translate this) ...
 
I think the older we become, the less we want to change anything. We are less afraid of anything but we prefer leaving everything as is.
 
If I could change one thing, I would stop all of the violence in this world. But I can't do so. Therefore, I'll continue to do the best I can to accept it.

One way to accept it is to really focus on the fact that their's a great amount of peace in this world. This world is not mostly violent. There's as much good going on in the world than bad, I think.
 
hmmm...one thing i wanna change..i really wish id taken a lot more pictures in high and middle school~
 
To be honest. I would change the way people use me and then take advantage of me and then act as if they do not know me. Well, now i will try my best to change this.
 
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