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Wow, every time I come back to say hi, certain people remind me of why I usually stay away. Thanks to everyone who said congratulations.
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Congrats! 
Just live your life well girl!
as they say, living well and happy is the best revenge (if you have enemies and detractors). you can't expect everyone to be happy for you but as long as you're happy and content, that is all that matters
however, when you post for some good news next time, you can probably choose another title and..... smile and wave :wel: I have to admit, the title caught my attention. Oi!
Why wouldn't they still be married? He knows she is tied to $ and he has none. He has to "seal the deal" with a baby. Either this year or next, but there will be one...UNLESS Liz finds someone else that gives her attention and is younger/cuter.
Liz shoehorned this relationship out of loneliness. Am I glad she's happy now, sure. But will it last? Prolly not. But then that goes with more than half of the marriages today, not just hers.
Have a feeling someone is living off of grammy's $ inheritance.
I just hope her mom and pops have her inheritance locked up for a very long time.
She went from living with mom and pops and just existing to going and getting a job and interacting with other people and got married to a dude in a matter of months. Now she is not working outside the home and back into a sheltered life with him. She hasn't grown up socially and that's what I worry the most about because she needs it.
And if that's mean, I don't mean it to be, but I deal with people that screw people over everyday by marrying them and get into the family. It's a long con and could take years to see what they were really after. And if they can get someone with no external friends even better for them.
Liz shoehorned this relationship out of loneliness. Am I glad she's happy now, sure. But will it last? Prolly not. But then that goes with more than half of the marriages today, not just hers.
Have a feeling someone is living off of grammy's $ inheritance.
I just hope her mom and pops have her inheritance locked up for a very long time.
She went from living with mom and pops and just existing to going and getting a job and interacting with other people and got married to a dude in a matter of months. Now she is not working outside the home and back into a sheltered life with him. She hasn't grown up socially and that's what I worry the most about because she needs it.
And if that's mean, I don't mean it to be, but I deal with people that screw people over everyday by marrying them and get into the family. It's a long con and could take years to see what they were really after. And if they can get someone with no external friends even better for them.
I'm so late to the story....Sorry to be nosy... How much is the inheritance? Maybe NoHio married too soon, but I doubt the guy married her for just money. I'm sure he wanted love and attention too... Probably a bonus that she was young and had some financial stability. I'm glad they are happy... So many are not....
Maybe he's a good guy. But once I heard he doesn't see his kids? That's a no go for me. If you don't care about seeing your kids, you haven't got a shot in hell to be the apple of his eye. His one son is not a teenager yet, right? His other wants nothing to do with him?
IIRC of course. It's been awhile.
IIRC of course. It's been awhile.
Oh and I'm also worried about Liz staying in the relationship just to prove to people they are meant to be together at whatever cost.
That, I hope I'm wrong the most about. Well that, plus the baby part.
But if she has a baby I think the family will be more apt to give $ over. But I'm sure he thought of that already.
That, I hope I'm wrong the most about. Well that, plus the baby part.
But if she has a baby I think the family will be more apt to give $ over. But I'm sure he thought of that already.
Everyone picks on her but really everyone hopes the best for her... It's like she has 100 moms :lol:
I'm not sure why I'm posting...
I'm not sure why I'm posting...
I think as a general rule that's why these threads get so out of hand. It's the mom in all of us that can see these train wrecks coming, go to great lengths to try to counsel, advise, encourage and then she steps on the tracks almost like she's trying to spite us. It's painful to watch a girl throw her life away (I'm actually talking more about the pre-married days).
It's true. You see it a mile away and want to shake the hell out of her and that's why I'm upset about her being socially immature, because she still wants to "stick it to you." Meanwhile she is just sticking herself.
I don't hate Liz, I actually like her and tried to help her with all her questions before that she posed on here. But the social interactions she has is still very 15 - 16 y.o. type of things. That's why I was happy she got a job and started going outside her comfort zone. It's a good thing! Heck I was the one that told her she should date someone older - IN HIS 30's I might add, not 50s because he'd show her more attention than a 20 y.o. dude. Everybody gave her advice and she herself described everything she wanted in a man and the person she married is everything she didn't want. That is why I worry. Sure opposites attract, I totally get that. But opposites also drive each other away after the initial fun factor wears off.
I like Liz, I hope she is happy. I just hope she is thinking about the long road ahead.
I don't hate Liz, I actually like her and tried to help her with all her questions before that she posed on here. But the social interactions she has is still very 15 - 16 y.o. type of things. That's why I was happy she got a job and started going outside her comfort zone. It's a good thing! Heck I was the one that told her she should date someone older - IN HIS 30's I might add, not 50s because he'd show her more attention than a 20 y.o. dude. Everybody gave her advice and she herself described everything she wanted in a man and the person she married is everything she didn't want. That is why I worry. Sure opposites attract, I totally get that. But opposites also drive each other away after the initial fun factor wears off.
I like Liz, I hope she is happy. I just hope she is thinking about the long road ahead.
Somewhat in Liz's defense, think back to say a year before you all met your DH/DW/SO/BF/GF, whatever. Did you find 100% what you thought you wanted? Is that person anything what you truly expected? Or did you grow to love them?
