Just something I wanted to do to help those who maybe wanted some advice on keeping their relationship happy and healthy! I'm not exactly the relationship go-to Guru but, what the hey, this is what I think would help 
One: Unconditional Love- No matter how crazy your partner is driving you and no matter how annoying they're being or how annoyed you're becoming always try and remember how much you love your partner. Keeping calm and mature about working things out is always best and endearment and love leaves you with much better results instead of falling out with your other half.
Two: Arguing- All couples will argue with each other and fall out from time to time however you should try and put yourself in your partners shoes. How would you react to what you're saying to your partner? How would you feel if said argument was happening and they blamed you or got annoyed with you? Is it REALLY their fault? Try not to argue unless it's necessary and remember that you're not fighting to win, you're fighting to explain your feelings and get problems fixed. There's no need to shout or be hurtful or cold. If your partner is listening, don't be any angrier then you have to be. End an argument as soon as possible, even if the last thing you feel like doing is kissing or cuddling.
Never argue in public. Even if WWIII is going on at home, you should always indulge in Public Displays of Affection (hand-holding/hugging/kissing) when out as a couple. It's not fair to embarrass the other about your own personal relationship issues.
Three: Love Making- If you and your partner have already took that plunge (pun intended) then make sure that when you can, you get into the habit of making love as regularly as you can. Don't schedule it or plan it to the T because it will become tiresome or a let down if you end up not feeling like it when the time comes. It's difficult if you don't see each other very often, but don't make it the focus of your time together if it turns out you don't feel like it. Long kisses, cuddles and exploration of the hands will suffice.
Four: Communication- Never grow apart from your lover because you can't be bothered or don't feel like communicating. Okay, so sometimes you're tired, in a bad mood or not feeling too well; you can at least let them know you love them can't you? Tell each other about your day in detail, ask each other interesting questions or start up a nice discussion about your plans for the future, even if it's just what you're going to do together next weekend.
Five: Being Grateful and Considerate- Don't take your partner for granted and always try and be considerate of their feelings. Taking your partner's everlasting love for granted can lead to affairs and arguments. Consideration comes into play when complimenting your partner, also. We all want to be open and honest with our partners don't we? Yes but don't hurt their feelings in the process.
Do you really think she's put on weight? Yes. Do you agree with her when she says she has? No.
What happens if she questions you?
You're beautiful and curvy babe.
I'm not even joking. There's being blunt and there's being tactful and sensitive. Don't shy away from positive criticism, if you prefer their hair up or down or prefer that other dress she was wearing, tell her, but never insult her in the process. Same for you girls! Men care a lot more than a lot of their girls think so if he asks you a question, be honest but don't forget to back it up with compliments and endearments.
Don't like it when your partner fishes for compliments? Tough. They most likely care about yours the most.
Six:Support- You are their shoulder to cry on. Never let your partner flounder around in sorrow and depression, even if their problems have nothing to do with you and even if you have no idea how to advise them. Be there for support, talk and offer your love, sympathy and ears. They will really appreciate it.
Seven: Appearance- Just because you've been dating for years doesn't mean you should let it all go. You should still try and look sexy for your partner, especially if you're about to go out or about to go upstairs. I'm not saying you should be ashamed if your partner sees you without make up on or while you're unwell but you should always make the effort to at least brush your hair and teeth and put a smile on your face for them.
Eight: Insecurity- We all have those problems. We all hate it when we realise our partner finds another person attractive and sometimes we don't realise how much it can hurt. Your partner is a human being, as are you, and both of you will find others attractive and admire other people. My advice? Don't tell your partner about it and don't sit there all day drooling over that person. Looking for them on the internet in compromising positions and not a lot of clothing is a sure fire way to hurt your partner too. Appreciate other human beings if you find them attractive but don't hurt your partners feelings and above all else; your partners friends are off limits. You don't want your partner falling out with their friends because you admitted to finding them attractive. As far as you're concerned, you love your partner and they need to know that despite all these other sexy humans, you only want and love them!
Nine: Fun and Games- Sometimes it's okay to act like children and have a pillow fight, play wrestle or who can pull the funniest face matches. Never be immature in your relationship, but immature play time is always fun!
Ten: Spontaneity- Shower your loved one with random loves and nice surprises. Don't make it a chore to say nice things or make special efforts. Sweep that girl off her feet and blow that boy's mind.
