I'm not big on the army, and I'm a strong believer that if you have loved ones like a serious boyfriend/girlfriend, or especially a husband/wife/child(ren), that you shouldn't join the armed forces, no matter what poisiton you're planning to take. When you join the armed forces, you're aware that no matter what your position, there's a chance you'll get injured or killed. There's no way around that, that's part of the job.
I don't think it's fair to put a loved one through the grief of losing you if you do get killed or go missing while on the job.
If Michael were to join the armed forces tomorrow, I'd seriously consider leaving him, and he knows it. If he loved me all that much, would he really be willing to put me through the long periods of time away from him, the worry, the grief if I should lose him, and do all by choice?
That's just me though

If signing up is what you really want to do and your family/boyfriend are supportive, then go for it and good luck
